Becca Murray

This is such a weird, scary, hopeful time and I am wildly appreciative to everyone who has asked to help.

So much of what I lost in the split was the forever version, and my intention for replacements is to hold out for the same. I expect this to be a slow process. My values are my values -- I am not buying any temporary/filler items and there are no Amazon/Walmart/Target links on this registry, so I kindly ask that you respect those purchasing boundaries. I am absolutely willing to accept vintage/thrifted/small biz/handmade versions of anything on the list (or that you think fits the vibe) -- those can be sent directly to: PO Box 9094 Glendale CA 91226.

If you would like to contribute towards a large item or my secondhand fund (I'm constantly searching Facebook Marketplace, thrift stores, estate sales and flea markets), please Venmo @thebeccamurray and use the memo to tell me where you'd like the money to be allocated. If it's going towards a specific item on the registry, I will update the note on that item to indicate how much has been contributed thus far. I'm honestly hoping to knock out most of the more expensive purchases via secondhand shopping, and will manually mark off any redundant items as I find them.

There are many things that did not make the registry because I am only looking for them secondhand, including most furniture, glassware, rugs, art, kitchenware and more -- if you would like to contribute towards those, the secondhand fund is the best way.

This has been the hardest year of my life, but I have been so heartened by the ways my community has shown up. You have picked me up, dusted me off, and I cannot express how grateful I am for your care and understanding. Thank you, thank you, thank you, from the bottom of my angry little Aries heart.

Update: If a site does not ship to a PO Box, feel free to look at other retailers for the same item or Venmo me directly with the item in the description and I can purchase/ship to my home. Thank you!